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ldka;djlg ye.Sï u;=jk whqre

ldka;djlg iy msßñhl=g ,sx.slj tla‌ùu i|yd ye.Sula‌ u;=jkafka Tjqfkdjqka w;r u;=jk is;=ú,s wkqjh' ksfrda.S ldka;djlg iy msßñhl=g jqj ta i|yd is;=ú,s my< fkdfõ kï ,sx.slj tla‌ùu i|yd ye.Sula‌ u;=jkafka ke;' ,sx.slj tla‌ùu i|yd ldka;djg iy msßñhdg is;=ú,s my< jQ úg u;=jk ye.Sïj,g wkqj ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ isÿfõ' fuu W;af;ackh ldka;djg iy msßñhdg we;sjk wdldrh ;=< fjkia‌lï mj;S'

ldka;djkag iy msßñkag ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ i|yd udkisl fukau ldhsl idOl o n,mdhs' flfia fj;;a ldka;djkag ,sx.sl wdYdj fukau ,sx.sl W;af;ackh i|yd udkisl idOl j, n, mEu jeäh'

ksfrda.S ldka;djlf.a iy msßñhl=f.a ,sx.sl W;af;ackh isÿjk wdldrh ksjerÈj y÷kd .ekSu jeo.;ah'

fuu fjkia‌lï ksisf,i y÷kd fkd.ekSu ksid ldka;djka iy msßñka w;r ,sx.sl .egÆ fukau wiykldÍ ;;a;ajhka we;s úh yelsh'

ldka;djlg ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ we;sùu
ldka;djlg ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ we;sùfï§ wehf.a Tima pl%h o n,mdhs' fndfyda ldka;djkag äïnhla‌ msgùug wdikak ld,fha§ ,sx.sl wdYdj jeäfõ' fuh idudkHfhka we;sjkafka Tima pl%fha ueo ld,fha§h'

.eí .ekSul§" ore m%iQ;sfhka miq uõlsß fok ld,fha§" wd¾:jyrKfhka miq" hïlsis udkisl mSvdjlska fmf<kúg iy frda.S ;;a;ajhl§ fydafudakj, isÿjk fjkia‌lï j,§ fofokd w;r we;sjk .egÆj,§o ,sx.sl ye.Sïj, fjkia‌lï u;=fõ' óg wu;rj úúO frda. i|yd .kq ,nk T!IO ksid o ,sx.sl ye.Sï fjkia‌fõ' úfYaIfhka mjq,a ie,iqï i|yd Ndú;d lrk fm;s j¾. iy tkak;a .kq ,nk úg ,sx.sl wdYdfõ fjkila‌ we;súh yelsh'

;reK úfha§ ,sx.sl ye.Sï my<ùu nyq, w;r ueÈúhg m;ajk úg th l%u l%ufhka wvq fõ'

ldka;djla‌ ,sx.sl W;af;ackhlg ,la‌ùu mshjr y;rlska oela‌úh yelsh' m<uq mshjr ta i|yd ye.Sï we;sùuh' fojk mshjr ,sx.sl m%foaYfha W;af;ackhhs' f;jk mshjr ,sx.sl lghq;= i|yd miqìu ieliSuh' isõjeks mshjr kej; idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;aùuh'

m<uq mshjr
ldka;djlg fukau msßñhl=go ,sx.sl tla‌ùula‌ i|yd ye.Sula‌ we;súh hq;=h' túg YdÍßlj iy udkislj ta i|yd weh ;=< iqodkula‌ we;sfõ'

fuf,i ,sx.sl ye.Sula‌ u;=ùu i|yd msßñhl= oelSu fyda ia‌m¾Yhu wjYH fkdfõ' udkislj we;sjQ is;=ú,a,la‌ ksido ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ u;=úh yelsh'

ldka;djlf.a ,sx.sl W;af;ackhl§ m<uqj oelsh yels ,la‌IKh jkqfha wehf.a mshhqre W;af;ackh ùuhs' bkamiq ;kmqvq m%dKj;a fõ' fuu ,la‌IK u;=ùu;a iuÛ wehf.a ,sx.sl m%foaYhg .uka lrk reêr m%udKh jeäfõ' ta wkqj tu m%foaYfha l%shdldß;ajh by< hhs'

fuys§ b;d bla‌ukska oelsh yels ,la‌IKhla‌ jkqfha fhdaks m%foaYh f;;aùuh' th ,sx.sl W;af;ackhla‌ we;s ù ;;amr 30 la‌ jeks flá ld,hl§ isÿúh yelsh'

fojeks mshjr
m%dKj;a Ndjhg m;ajQ ,sx.sl m%foaYh il%Sh nj hï miqnEulg ,la‌jQjd jeks ,la‌IK u;=fõ' ,sx.sl W;af;ackh wm%dKsl jQjd f,i we;eï fokd th is;;s' fuh jerÈ wdl,amhls' isÿù we;af;a ,sx.sl W;af;ackh wm%dKslùula‌ fkdj ,sx.sl lghq;= i|yd wjYH miqìu ieliSuh' tkï ,sx.slj yeisÍu i|yd wjYH ld,h Wodù ;sîuh'

f;jeks mshjr
,sx.slj yeisÍï ld,h ;SrKh jkafka tlsfkldf.a YdÍßl yd udkisl ;;a;ajh u;h' flfia fj;;a ,sx.slj yeisÍfï§ ldka;djg udkislj we;sjk Wmßu ;;a;ajh iqr;dka;hg m;aùu f,i y÷kajkq ,nhs'

iqr;dka;fha§ wehf.a fhdaks m%foaYfha udxYfmaYs ixfldapkhùu we;sfõ' th fhdaks m%foaYfhka mgkaf.k ll=,a w;a md Worh m%foaYh ola‌jd me;sr hd yelsh'

fï wjia‌:dfõ§ ldka;djf.a reêr mSvkh jeä fõ' yDo ia‌mkaokh by< hhs' yqia‌u .ekSu fõ.j;afõ' .eUqre yqia‌u .ekSula‌ we;sfõ'

idudkHfhka iqr;dka;hg m;aùfuka miq wehf.a we;s jQ ,sx.sl W;af;ackh l%u l%ufhka myj f.dia‌ idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;a fõ' kuq;a weh ;=< u;=jk ye.Su wkqj iy ,sx.sl l%shdfõ ia‌jNdjh wkqj kej; jrla‌ weh iqr;dka;hg m;aúh yelsh' tfiau ,sx.sl l%shdfõ ;jÿrg;a fh§fï yelshdjo mj;S' fuh msßñhdf.a;a" ldka;djf.a;a ,sx.sl W;af;ackfha oelsh yels fjkils'

ldka;dj iqr;dka;hg m;ajQ úg wehf.a fhdaks ud¾.fhka msgjk ;r,h jeäfõ' we;eï ldka;djkg uq;%d iq¿ m%udKhla‌o msg fõ' fuh wksjd¾hfhkau isÿjk fyda isÿúh hq;= fohla‌ fkdfõ'

isõjeks mshjr
iqr;dka;fhka miq ldka;djf.a ,sx.sl m%foaYfha bys,ajQ udxY fmaYs iy reêr mSvkh idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;aùu wdrïN fõ'

fuf,i ldka;dj idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;aùu b;d bla‌ukska isÿjkafka iqr;dka;hg m;a jQ miqh'

iqr;dka;hg m;a fkdù ,sx.sl lghq;= wjika lrkúg wehg idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;aùu i|yd jeä ld,hla‌ .; fõ' fuh ks;r ks;r mej;Sfuka ldka;djg ,sx.slj tla‌ùfï§ iy bkamiq fõokdldÍ njla‌ we;súh yelsh'

Dr : Lasantha Malawige
Source | Divaina.com