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rkayqfhka w.s,s ne| Tfí fmrod fmïj;shj lekaodf.k wd od isg wE T‍fí wdorKSh ìß| jQjdh' wE fï fudfydf;a iQodkñka isákafka ìß|f.a NQñldfõ isg ujl f,i W;a;Í;r moúhla ,nkakgh' weh ujl jQ od mgka Tn;a ksrdhdifhkau msfhl= njg m;afõ' wef.a l=fia kQmka l,,fha ysñlrejd weh muKla fkdfõ' ta Tfí;a wef.a;a wdorhhs' Tn fofokd tlaj ,ndÿka Ôjhhs'

orefjl= l=i ms<sis|.;a od mgka isgu Tn yd o.ldrlï l<" T‍fí miqmiska Èj wd" fl<sf,d,a hqj;sh" Tfí ìß| yd;amiskau fjkia pß;hla njg m;afõ' wE ÿj mkskafka ke;sj ikaiqka .ukska md Tijhs' ore .eng ydkshla fõ hehs is;d iuyrla lEu îu iSud lrhs' yeisÍï rgd fjkia lrhs' wd.u oyug keUqre fjhs' ud;D;ajh ,nkakg isák wE ldhslj o" udkislj o fmrodg jvd ;ekm;a fjhs' kQmka Ôjhg wdorh lrhs'

ta;a''' W;=ï msh moúhg ;j;a fkdfnda Èklska md ;nkakg iQodkïjk Tn" T‍fí orejd fjkqfjka lrkafka l=ula o@ u|la is;d n,kak' ;du yßyuka riaidjla keye' wf;a i,a,s;a keye' bkak ysákak yßhg f.hla keye' Tn isákafka m%Yak f.dvlska ñßls,d jqK;a fï fudfydf;a wef.a l=ig wdj ore meáhj wdorfhka ms<s.ekSu Tfí j.lSula' weh fl;rï ;ukaf.a udkisl;ajh iqnjd§ lr.kak W;aidy l<;a Tn Bg ksis iyhla fkdfokjd kï ta foh wehg muKla l< fkdyelshs'

Tn Tfí ñ;=rka yd ld,h .;lsÍug jeä m%sh;djhla olajkjd kï" ksjfia /‍fokafka flá ld,hla kï weh ;ukaf.a ÿl iem fnod.kafka ld iu. o@ Tn ksfjig meñfKkafka iqrdfjka u;a ù kï''' tf,i meñK ore .enla l=i ;=< ordf.k isák wehg ldhslj iy udkislj mSvd ‍f.kfokjd kï" ta mSvkh weh flfia ord.kako@ wmyiqfjka fyda ms<sfh, lr.;a n;a m; lkakg bv fkd§" Tfí ;ryj l=iaisfha ye<s j<x" ms.ka" fldmam u;ska md lrkjd kï" ksfjiu fojk;a jkfia lE .ihs kï ìh jkafka weh muKla fkdfõ' Tfí;a" wef.a;a wdorKSh orejd o ìhg m;aúh yelshs'

we;eï msßñka ;u ìß|g wdorh olajkafka wE fmïj;shl f,iska .; l< ld,fha§ yd újdy Èúhg m;a ù flá ld,hla hk;=re muKhs' u,ska u,g frdkg wefok nUß÷ fia Tjqka kS;Hdkql+, ìß| isáh § wkshï weiqrla fidhdhhs' ìß| ore .enla l=fiys ord isáh§;a weh ;u ieñhdf.a fujeks l%shdldrlï bjikafka flf,iska o@ ;j;a we;euqka ;u ìß| ore .en ordf.k isáh § ;djld,sl weiqrla m;d fjk;a ldka;djka miqmi hhs' wef.a l=fia isákafka weh;a" Tn;a tlaj iE¥ ore megjd fkao@ Tn fjkqfjka wE ish,a, ordf.k isáoa§ yqÿ ;Dma;shla fjkqfjka Tn tfrys jkafka wehg muKla fkdj Tfí kQmka ore megjdghs'


Tn isákafka wf;a if;aj;a ke;s fudfyd;l jkakg mq¿jka' Tn weh yd wdorfhka isà kï weh Tn fjkqfjka ´kEu úfgl iïfnda,hs" n;=hs jqj;a wdydrhg .kSú' tfy;a" weh fï f.jkafka b;d ÿIalr ld,mßÉfþohla' Tng weh fjkqfjka ri uijq¿ f.k fokakg j;alula ke;s jqj;a" j;a; msáfha jefgk fjr¿ f.ähla folla fyda wehg f.kú;a ÿkafkd;a weh th fl;rï wdorfhka ms<s.kSo@ w;ñfÜ uqo,a ke;;a ta fudfydf;a mj;sk wd¾:sl mSvkh wehg fkdoefkk fia ;nd.; yelskï" weh udkislj weojefjkafka o ke;'

iuyrla whg ;ukaf.a ksfji;a ld¾hd,h;a hk foflysu t;rï fjkila ke;' ld¾hd, jevlghq;= j,ska fldgila ksfjfia § bgqlsÍu Tjqkaf.a mqreoaols' meh .Kkdjla Tn wehf.ka /‍fokafka ÿriajh' weh;a" Tn;a ;rula fyda l;d ny lr.kafka ÿrl;kfhks' tfy;a" orefjl= ,efnkakg isák weh fjkqfjka Tfí;a lemùu m%udKj;a o@ ke;' Tng Tfí ore megjd fjkqfjka ld,hla fjkalrkakg yelskï" weh;a iu. ksoyfia l;d ny lrkakg yelskï" Tng wef.a udkisl;ajh kxjd,sh yelsfõú'

wef.a is; fkdßoùu Tfí hq;=luls' i;s wka;fha fyda fydard lsysmhla wef.a i;=g fjkqfjka Tn fjkalrkak' weh jvd;a m%shlrk Ñ;%mghla" .S;hla wikakg" ú¢kakg bvla ,ndfokak' weh iu. iqyoj l;dlrkak' fldfya fyda iqkaor ia:dkhlg wehj /f.k hkak' wef.a l=i w;.dñka Tfí orejd iu. l;d lrkak'

fï Wodfj,d ;sfhkafka Tng Tfí je/È" wvqmdvq yod.kak fyd|u ld,hhs' ld,hla fjka ù is;ska ÿria ù isáh;a orefjla fjkqfjka tlajqKq mjq,a lShla kï wfma weiamkdmsgu yuqfjkjo@ ;ukaf.a ìß|f.a l=fia orefjla ms<sis|.;a;d lshk wdrxÑh lK jel=Kq od mgkau mrK ÿisß;a .;s w;er,d orejd fjkqfjka lemjqKq mshjre .ek wykak olskak ,efnkjd fkao@ weh fl;rï W;aidy .;a;;a wehg muKla ;ksj orejdf.a udkisl;ajh" hy in|;d f.dvkxjkak neye' Tfí iyh;a Bg w;HjYHuhs'

orejd fï f,daflg ìysjqKq od mgka wef.a fyda Tyqf.a yeisÍï rgd fjkia lrkak W;aidy .kakjg jvd l,,h ujql=fia ;sìh§u Tn fofokdg Tfí yeisÍï rgdj hym;a lr.; yels kï" ta wkqj Tfí orejd;a yev.efiaú' Tyqg ksr;=reju ujq l=fia§ weyqfKa l,yldÍ foa kï" ;ryj" ffjrh kï Tyq;a ;j;a ld,hlska l,yldÍ mqoa.,fhl= f,i f,dalh yd tlafõú'

msh moúh W;=ï moúhla' yefudagu msh moúh ,nkak neye' talg;a mska lrkak Tfka' fï .;fjkafka wef.a;a" Tnf.a;a iaj¾Kuh ld, mßÉfþohla' kQmka orejd fjkqfjka Tn lemfjkak' Tfí Yla;sh wehg ,ndfokak' Tn wef.a fijKe,a, fjkak'

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