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<. tk ux., udifha m;sl=,hg msúiSug isák ;reK ;reKshka fï .;lrkafka b;d ld¾hnyq, ld,hla' rEm,djKH Ys,amsksh yuqùug" W;aij Yd,d fjkalr .ekSug kE ys;j;=kag wdrdOkd lsÍug wd§ jYfhka fjfyfik Tn újdyh fjkqfjka fldmuK foa l<;a wu;l lrk jeo.;a fohlao we;'

újdy ù ore megjqka ,nd wÆ;a f,dalhla f.dvke.Sug n,dfmdfrd;a;= fmdÈ n¢k Tng ta ish,a,u fjkqfjka ksfrda.Sj isàu w;HjYH fõ' ldhslj;a" udkislj;a" ,sx.slj;a ukd fi!LH iïmkak Ôú;hla Tn i;=úh hq;=uh' fkdtfia kï Tfí bÈß .uk wid¾:lhs' ta ksid fï ,smsfha jeo.;alu fyg wksoaog újdy ùug isák ;reK Tngh'

kS;Hkql+, jhi

újdyh i|yd kS;Hkql+, jhi wjqreÿ 18h' wjqreÿ oy wfÜ§ újdy jqjo orejka ,eîug iqÿiq jkafka wjqreÿ 20ka miqjh' wvq jhfia ;reKshkag orejl= m%iQ; lsÍug ;rï ldhsl Yla;shla ke;'

35ka miq

jhi wjqreÿ 35g wdikak ld,hl újdy jk wfhla kï b;d ie,ls,su;a úh hq;=h' ire ld,h f.ùhk fï jhfia§ Tjqkag iskafv%daï orejka ,eîug 33] lg jeä wjodkula mj;S' tfiau jhi wjq 20-30;a w;r m%:u yd fojeks orejka ìysù 35ka miq ;=kajeks orejd ìysfõ kï tys§;a Tjqkag iskafv%daï wjodku 33]la mj;S'

ux., Èkh

ux., W;aijhg Èk kshu jkafka Tima Èk wdY%s;j kï tys§ we;sjk wmyiq;d u.yrjd .ekSug T!IO Ndú; l< yelshs' tjeks T!IO w;=re úmdl we;s lrk njg u;hla we;;a th ñ:Hdjls' Tima m%udo lrk ld,h Èk 2-3la fyda i;shla úh yelsh' ta m%udo lrk ld,h wkqj T!IO ud;%dj fjkia fõ' tfia T!IO Ndú; lrkjd kï ffjoHjrhl=f.a Wmfoia u; muKla l%shd lrkak' tfia T!IO Ndú;fhka Tima kej;=Kq miqj B<.g m%:u jrg Tima iEfok úg f,a jykh jeäúh yelsh' thg ìh fkdjkak'

mdrïmßl frda.

újdyfha§ fmdfrdkaoï mÍla‍Id lsÍu jeo.;ajk ;rugu fofokdf.a fi!LH ms<sn| ie,ls,su;a ùu;a w;sYh jeo.;a' ;e,siSñhd jeks frda. mj;S' tajd újdyhg fmru mÍla‍Id lr iqÿiq úi÷ï fhdod.ekSu wjYHhs'

isref¾ nr

wêl uy; ;reKshla kï újdyhg fmr isgu YÍrh ieye,aÆ lr.ekSu flfrys ie,ls,su;aùu jeo.;a' ke;skï .eí .ekSfuka miqj wêl reêr mSvkh" Èhjeähdj jeks frda. wjodkug f.dÿre úh yelsh'

mjq,a in|;d

újdy jk hqj<lg ,sx.sl Ôú;h ms<sn| ukd oekSula ;sîu b;d jeo.;a' ksje/È oekSulska f;drj újdy Ôú;hg tlaùfï úmdlh f,i uq¿ Ôú;hu kSri ù fofokdg fofokd tmdùfï ;;a;ajhla we;súh yelshs' fndfyda fokd je/È u; ksid .egÆ we;slr .kakd w;r my; oelafjkafka ta ms<sn|h'

• we;euqka w;r mj;sk je/È u;hla jQfha ;u YÍrfha ,sx.sl wjhj j, m%udKh mjq,a Èúfha i;=gg ndOd we;slrk njh' kuq;a ;Dma;su;a ,sx.sl Ôú;hlg m%udKh n,mdkafka ke;'

fuys§ jvd jeo.;a jkafka wUq-ieñ hqj<f.a wfkHdkH wjfndaOhhs' fofokd w;r idlÉPd lsÍu ks;r isÿúh hq;=h' kuq;a Tn fofokdgu úiod.; fkdyels fohla kï ta i|yd fi!LH ffjoH ks,Odß" mjq,a fi!LH fiaúldj fyda m%ij yd kdßfõo ffjoHjrhl= yuqù Wmfoia m;kak'

fuu .egÆ wju l< yels jkafka ksis ,sx.sl wOHdmkhla ,nd§fuks' th mdif,ka ,eìh hq;a;ls' th fkd,eî hEu ksid .egÆ /ila u;=fõ'

msßiqÿ ,sx.sl fi!LHhla ;sîu id¾:l hq.Èúhlg uQ,sl ,la‍IKhls'

È.=ld,hl isg ÿï îug weíneys jQ whl=g id¾:l hq.Èúhla ysñlr .; fkdyelsh' ÿï mdkh ksid ,sx.sl Yla;sh wvmK fõ' thg úi÷ula f,i W;af;ack T!IO ,nd .;a;o th ;djld,slh'

Tn wjqreÿ 10-15la ;siafia Èhjeähd frda.fhka fmf<hs kï tho ,sx.sl ÿn,;d we;sùug fya;= fõ' fï ksidu ,sxf.akao%h wdY%s;j úúO wdidok we;sù wmsßiqÿ jk ksid ffjoH Wmfoia u; m%;sldr .ekSu iqÿiqh'

wjYH flfkla fõ kï újdyhg fmr iudc frda. je,£ ke;s njg ;yjqre lr .ekSug VDRL mÍla‍Idj lr.; yelsh' thg jehjkafka iq¿ uqo,ls'

,sx.sl wOHdmkh

Ôú;fha ishÆ foa kejqï jk ;rug Ôú;h ;Dma;su;ah' ,sx.sl i;=g;a tjekakls'

• Tn Ndú; lrk iqj| ú,jqka j¾.h l,ska l,g fjkia l< yelsh'

• Tfí ksok ldurh msßiqÿj b;d m%ikak iqj¢ka ;nkak'

• ksÈ hyfka we;sß,s fldÜg Wr wdÈh ks;r wÆ;a lrkak'

• ksÈ hyk ;nk ia:dkh fjkia lrkak'

• ksje/È ,sx.sl bßhõ i|yd ffjoHjrhl= yuqù Wmfoia ,nd.kak'

fuf,i ld,h" ia:dkh yd iqj| u.ska úúO;ajhla tla lrñka Tfí mjq,a Èúh id¾:l lr.ekSug yelsh'

;jo hq. Èúfha§ ksrka;r fofokd w;r idlÉPd we;súh hq;=h'

fofokdf.a reÑ wreÑlï jgyd.; yels jkafka túgh' kuq;a fï ms<sn| wUq-ieñhka w;r idlÉPd lsÍug ,eÊcdYS,S jk fyhska miqld,Skj mjq,a Ôú; foord hEug;a fya;= fõ'

wjfndaOh

újdy Ôú;hg msúis Tn fmr fuka ir," ieye,aÆ Ôú;hla wfmala‍Id fkdl< hq;=h' ksoyi ;rula iSud fjñka" j.lSï iy.;j b;d l,amkdldÍj l%shd lsÍu jeo.;ah' ;u iylre fyda iyldßhf.a wjYH;d uekúka i,ld n,d" lemlsÍï isÿlr wjfndaOfhka l%shd l< hq;=h' m%S;su;a hq. Èúhl iqkaor;ajh wo fukau fygg;a tf,iskau /l.ekSug fuu Tjoka Tn yg jeo.;a jkq ksielh'