How To Find A Good Man To Marry?

wm w;ru fjfik iuyr ñksiqka fidndoug úreoaOj jev lsÍu ksid ñksia iudch o úkdYh lrd .uka lrhs. .eyeksh yd ñksid ks¾udKh ù we;af;a tlsfkldg .e<fmk f,isks. Tjqka w;r ,sx.sl in|;d we;s jkafka udkj meje;au Wfoidh. tfy;a oeka udkj meje;aug;a fidnd oyug;a úreoaOj hk iu,sx.sl in|;d ksid iudcuh .egÆ mek ke.S we;.


wm, ffjoH isisr ,shkf.a yuqjQfha fï iïnkaOfhka f;dr;=re oek .ekSfï wáfhks.


* iu,sx.sl in|;d mj;ajkakjqka w;r jeä m%udKhla isákafka .eyekq o msßño?


msßñ yd .eyekq hk fofldgfia u iu,sx.sl in|;d mj;ajkakka isákjd. fï w;ßka wmg jd¾;d jk úÈhg kï wfma iudcfha msßñ iu,sx.slhka ixLHdj jeähs. .eyekq iu,sx.slhka ixLHdfjka wvqhs. msßñ iu,sx.slhka i|yd fjku u ix.ï, ixúOdk mjd mj;ajdf.k hkjd. we;eï rdcH fkdjk ixúOdkj,ska mjd Tjqkag wdOdr lrkjdÆ. fuu ix.ï úiska Tjqkaf.a l%shdldrlï m%isoaêhg m;a lrkjd. wm isÿ l< iólaIK jd¾;djlg wkqj kï 10,000la jf.a m%udKhl msßñ iu,sx.slhka m%udKhla wfma rfÜ isákjd. fï ixLHdj ;j ÿrg;a j¾Okh fjñka mj;skjd.


* ;reKshlg iu,sx.sl ;reKhl= yd fkdoekqj;alñka újdy ùug isÿ jqjfyd;a tu ;reKsh uy;a wmyiq;djlg m;a fjkjd... fï ksid újdyhg l,ska ;ud újdy ùug hk mqoa.,hd iu,sx.slhl=oehs oek .ekSfï l%uhla ;sfhkjo?


fuhg Rcq ms<s;=rla §ug wmyiqhs. msßñ iu,sx.slhka fldgia folla bkakjd.. ixl%dka;sl ,sx.slhka ñka tla fldgila. Tjqka ;ud .eyekshla hehs is;kjd.. .eyekq f,iska ieriSug leue;a;la olajkjd jf.au Tjqka .eyekq f,iska yeisfrkjd. fujekakka iudcfha § y÷kd .ekSug myiqhs. ndysrj Tjqka iu,sx.sl mqoa.,hka nj lshkak mq¿jka.


ta;a wfkla iu,sx.slhka tf,iska myiqfjka y÷kd .ekSug neye. Tjqka fmkqfuka, yeisÍfuka idudkH msßñkag iudkhs. ;uka iu,sx.slfhla nj ie.ùug W;aidy lrkjd.. Tjqkg msßñ ye.Sï, msßñ fydafudak ;snqK;a ,sx.sl in|;d meje;aùug leue;a;la olajkafka msßñka iu.hs. tjeks msßñ ldka;djkag leue;s kE.


we;eï wh mdi,a ld,fha iu,sx.sl in|;dj,g weíneys jqj;a jeäysá jQ miqj ldka;djla iu. újdy ù fyd| mjq,a Ôú; .; lrkjd. ;j;a fldgila újdy ù isáh § mjd iu,sx.sl in|;d mj;ajkjd. fujeks wh msßñkag fukau ldka;djkag;a leue;shs.


* úreoaO ,sx.sl in|;djlg jvd iu,sx.sl in|;djlska ,sx.dYs‍%; frda. fnda ùfï jeä bvla ;sfhkjo?


wksjd¾hfhkau Tõ. úreoaO ,sx.sl in|;d i|yd iajNdjfhka u .eyekq, msßñ fofldgif.au YÍr ks¾udKh fj,d ;sfhkjd. ta;a iu,sx.sl in|;d i|yd iajNdjfhka isrer ks¾udKh fj,d keye. fldKavï jeks wdrlaIl Wml%u Ndú;hl=;a ke;s ksid iu,sx.sl in|;d ksid ,sx.dYs‍%; frda. fndaùu jeähs.


* fydafudakj, fjkialï ksid iu,sx.slhka we;s fjkjd hehs lsjqj;a oeka fuh jeä jeäfhka jHdma; fjk njla , thg weíneys ùula fjkjd fkao?


, fï i|yd udkisl, ldhsl, iudchSh lreKq ish,a, u n,mdkjd. iakdhqj, fjkialï we;s ùu ksid;a udkisl leue;a; ksid;a fujeks in|;d we;slr .kakjd.. msßñ fydiag,a, ysrf.j,a wdÈfhys isák wh;a iu,sx.sl in|;d i|yd fm,fUkjd. fudjqkaf.a jeä leue;a; ldka;djkag jqj;a ldka;djka fkdue;slu ksid ;u ye.Sï ika;¾mKh lr .ekSug iu,sx.slhka fj; hdug fm,fUkjd.


tajf.a mdi,a <uhska fjk;a jeäu,a mqoa.,hka úiska ;udf.a i;=g i|yd fhdod .ekSu ksid tjeks <uhska iu,sx.slhka njg m;aúh yelshs.


* ;udf.a orejd iu,sx.slfhla fkdùug hï odhl;ajhla ujqmshkag;a iemhsh yelshe
hs ysf;kjd...

orejl= jeäysá ;;a;ajhg, ta lshkafka mdif,ka bj;ajk jhi olajdj;a ujqmshka ;u orejka .ek úuis,af,ka isáh hq;=hs. ks;ru ;ud kj fhdjqka úfha § l< lS oE .ek;a ;ud uqyqK ÿka wjia:d yd w;aoelSï .ek;a is;d n,d orejd /l .ekSug W;aidy l< hq;=hs. tajf.a u orejd yuqfjk mqoa.,hka iy Tyq fyda weh lrk lshk lghq;= ms<sn| oeä wjOdkhlska miqúh hq;=hs. fï i|yd orejd iómj ñ;%hl= fia wdY%h lsÍfuka Tng orejd /l.ekSfï yelshdj ;sfnkjd. ta jf.au jl%dldrfhka fyda fujeks foa .ek orejka oekqj;a l< hq;=hs. orejd hï f,ilska fyda hful=f.a .%yKhg yiq ù we;akï wod< mqoa.,hka iu. idlÉPd fldg thska orejd uqod .ekSug l%shd lsÍu jeo.;a.


Wmfoia ) cd;sl ,sx.dYs‍%; frda. yd taâia u¾ok jHdmdrfha wOHlaI ffjoH isisr ,shkf.a


PdhdrEmh ) ksfrdaIa nfÜfmd,

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